A man requires chaos for his growth, a certain disorder. He needs it if he is to grow. Men rarely grow in times of calm and order. That’s not how civilisations have been built. That’s not the furnace of great men. For one to become great, they must seek disorder and court it at all
I wanted to talk about a very personal issue. Something that kind of runs through every man in my family, it’s something I doubted when my father hinted on it. But now I realize it’s very true. Very very evident, all the men here carry the trait of being unforgettable. In some like me, it
The times has changed so fast. Gone are the days when you were certain you could work at one job for years. Job security has become a thing of the past. Automation is taking its fair share of the jobs. Companies are merging day and night, and positions being combined, others made redundant. Organizations are
We over-complicate life. It turns out, life is too simple. There are 24 hours in a day. So then how shall a man spend those 24 hours? 1: He takes off 8 Hours to Sleep 2: He takes off 8 Hours to Work 3: He takes off 8 Hours to Play And that’s it, 24
I got the best advice from one of my mentors. He did not even tell give me this advice in words, I got it simply by hanging around him. I also noticed other rich people have employed a similar model. So I decided to copy this best practice from the best. In most cases, whatever
Have you looked into the eyes of most people on Sunday evenings just as the sun begins to set, from 5pm onwards? Have you stared long enough and seen the words their eyes are saying? It’s one word, dread. There is that funny feeling that takes over most people on Sunday evenings, it’s the reminder
The biggest mistake of my life, was actually going to University and spending four years there. It was the the most snail-pace part of my life ever. And knowing what I know now, I shouldn’t have stepped in a single lecture room. I was ready for the real world after Senior Six. I did not
A lot of my male friends that pay me a visit at my apartment always comment along the lines; “if I stayed here, I would build a harem.” I laugh at them, because a younger version of me thought the same. There was a younger version of me that saw sex as the end. Now
The only thing that works is work. The only thing you can control at any time is your work ethic. You don’t get to choose your talent, your intelligence, but you have the absolute ability to choose your work ethic. I just keep asking myself one question; “If today I was betting, would I bet
I am just too shocked that most of my friends in their twenties are playing it too safe, too comfortable. They are trying to win in the short-term but losing in the long-term. Most don’t realize the value, the gem that is their twenties. I am just baffled every time I think about my twenties,